Sometimes we can see Mt. Fuji from our school. . .
When I moved to Japan, there wasn't much online in the way of blogs or homemade websites. Sometimes I wonder how today's Internet might have changed things. Anyway, I'll try to convey here what it's like to live in Tokyo. Hopefully some useful information for visitors and newly-arrived expats, and for people thinking of moving here.
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Friday, December 6, 2013
音姫 (The Sound Princess)
Have you ever felt
embarrassed by the natural gaseous and liquid sounds we all make while
doing Number 2? For anyone who has, the public restroom in Japan is the
place to be.
Witness the Otohime:
Incredibly, there's a Wikipedia article entitled "Toilets in Japan." I think it's pretty good. In the "Japan-specific accessories" section you can find "The Sound Princess." It mentions that "many Japanese women are embarrassed at the thought of being heard by others during urination. . ."
See article here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toilets_in_japan
When I first read that part of the article, my first reaction was surprise that people would be embarrassed to be heard urinating. Really, urinating? Well, I'm a guy, and. . .well, I don't know if gender should have anything to do with this, but I don't mind people hearing it. I can even see being proud of it, as Tom Hanks' character Jimmy Dugan might have felt in this classic scene (if he'd been sober enough to think about it):
To be embarrassed to have someone hear one's peeing is a little messed up, was my first reaction, but I'm trying now to step back and not judge it.
My second reaction was that I was easily able to imagine a lot of women in Japan being embarrassed in such situations. Many of my Japanese friends say that Japanese people are generally shy, but I don't really agree with them. I've come to draw a distinction between shy and embarrassed, or somewhat easily embarrassed. I see shyness as a personality trait that can exist regardless of how others see us. When we feel shy, we feel bashful or reluctant regardless of how others react to us, or how we think they're reacting to us. . . Bashful people can meet fans or foes and still feel bashful. Someone who is easily embarrassed, on the other hand, might possibly feel confident and grand when others hold him/her in high regard; but this person might shrink in the face of looking awkward, incompetent, uncool, or otherwise bad. I don't know that being either shy or easily embarrassed is better or worse than the other, but I do think they're different conditions.
My third reaction was, "Why am I not embarrassed by having others hearing me urinate, but the other sounds. . .?" Generally, I'd rather not emit gas or have others hear me doing Number 2; and yet, a Number 1 audible is no problem for me. How arbitrary is that? I really don't know. . .I really don't.
P.S. Otohime is also the name of a goddess in Japanese mythology, and of a character in the manga / anime series One Piece, which I love:
Witness the Otohime:
Incredibly, there's a Wikipedia article entitled "Toilets in Japan." I think it's pretty good. In the "Japan-specific accessories" section you can find "The Sound Princess." It mentions that "many Japanese women are embarrassed at the thought of being heard by others during urination. . ."
See article here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toilets_in_japan
When I first read that part of the article, my first reaction was surprise that people would be embarrassed to be heard urinating. Really, urinating? Well, I'm a guy, and. . .well, I don't know if gender should have anything to do with this, but I don't mind people hearing it. I can even see being proud of it, as Tom Hanks' character Jimmy Dugan might have felt in this classic scene (if he'd been sober enough to think about it):
To be embarrassed to have someone hear one's peeing is a little messed up, was my first reaction, but I'm trying now to step back and not judge it.
My second reaction was that I was easily able to imagine a lot of women in Japan being embarrassed in such situations. Many of my Japanese friends say that Japanese people are generally shy, but I don't really agree with them. I've come to draw a distinction between shy and embarrassed, or somewhat easily embarrassed. I see shyness as a personality trait that can exist regardless of how others see us. When we feel shy, we feel bashful or reluctant regardless of how others react to us, or how we think they're reacting to us. . . Bashful people can meet fans or foes and still feel bashful. Someone who is easily embarrassed, on the other hand, might possibly feel confident and grand when others hold him/her in high regard; but this person might shrink in the face of looking awkward, incompetent, uncool, or otherwise bad. I don't know that being either shy or easily embarrassed is better or worse than the other, but I do think they're different conditions.
My third reaction was, "Why am I not embarrassed by having others hearing me urinate, but the other sounds. . .?" Generally, I'd rather not emit gas or have others hear me doing Number 2; and yet, a Number 1 audible is no problem for me. How arbitrary is that? I really don't know. . .I really don't.
P.S. Otohime is also the name of a goddess in Japanese mythology, and of a character in the manga / anime series One Piece, which I love:
Sunday, December 1, 2013
the autumn leaves, 紅葉 (こうよう、kouyou) and leaf peeping, 紅葉狩 (もみじがり、momijigari)
There's a single word in Japanese that describes the changing color of the leaves during autumn:
紅葉 (こうよう、kouyou)
Having grown up in Hawai'i, the autumn leaves are still kind of exciting for me. I love seeing them in the parks, on the sidewalks as I make my way to school. . .I love stepping on them. In Japanese culture, the term hanami describes a "cherry-blossom viewing party," for many people a reason to drink outdoors alongside hundreds of other people. They're a pretty big deal. I started wondering if we had corresponding autumn leaf-viewing parties. At that point, some part of my mind recalled an episode of The West Wing (in Japan the show is called "ザ・ホワイトハウス"), in which they use the term "leaf peeping." I didn't know it but it's a real thing in America. President Bartlet didn't know it either. People go out and look at and take pictures of the changing colors of the leaves, and there's an official term for this. The Wikipedia entry for leaf peeping is at
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leaf_peeping
and in that article, I found out that there is a Japanese equivalent, called momijigari (紅葉狩). Travel agencies offer tours.
This video came out kind of small (taken with my i-Phone), so it might be hard to see that they're trying to catch the leaves raining down on them. If you full-screen it you should be able to see it a little better.
紅葉 (こうよう、kouyou)
Having grown up in Hawai'i, the autumn leaves are still kind of exciting for me. I love seeing them in the parks, on the sidewalks as I make my way to school. . .I love stepping on them. In Japanese culture, the term hanami describes a "cherry-blossom viewing party," for many people a reason to drink outdoors alongside hundreds of other people. They're a pretty big deal. I started wondering if we had corresponding autumn leaf-viewing parties. At that point, some part of my mind recalled an episode of The West Wing (in Japan the show is called "ザ・ホワイトハウス"), in which they use the term "leaf peeping." I didn't know it but it's a real thing in America. President Bartlet didn't know it either. People go out and look at and take pictures of the changing colors of the leaves, and there's an official term for this. The Wikipedia entry for leaf peeping is at
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leaf_peeping
and in that article, I found out that there is a Japanese equivalent, called momijigari (紅葉狩). Travel agencies offer tours.
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